Role Models - In Flesh & Blood

Yesterday I heard that someone my kids looked up to won the prestigious Rhodes Scholarship. 

We spoke about it at home. The kids wanted to know more about it - what qualities did this person have ? What is the significance of this scholarship to his life etc ?



To me, this conversation was about role models.
According to the dictionary a role model is "a person
whose behaviour in a particular role is imitated by others".


Today Chota Bheem, Krish 3 and Iron Man have become the role model for our kids. The question i have for you (and me) is -
How do we help our kids find role models in flesh and blood who inspire them with their dreams and behaviour ?

 Presenting my thoughts -

1. As a parent, you are the first role model for your kids. Be aware of the impact you are making in your child's life. Be consistent in your behaviour. It will help your child absorb the values that are important to emulate.

2. Consciously point out people who are doing / dreaming of something exemplary. Be it people who stood up for a principle, someone who made a difference in your community, creative professionals and sports person. Some times even peer group achievements can be highlighted. Remember not to compare your child with that individual. (Especially on what your child lacks)

3. Talk about the qualities that make these role models reach where they are. These could be hard work, focus, dedication, creativity etc. Make the concept simple enough for the child to understand. If your child can read - you can point them to other resources on the subject. Share related stories where similar qualities were driving forces for other people.

4. Keep helping your child see that his/her role models is human with the ability to make mistakes. What is important is to learning from them
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I hope you can get started on expanding on this topic at home.
Not only for your kids but your own sake
More later